Daydra Cormican

About Daydra

 

Daydra is an EMDR therapist located in Windsor, Ontario.

She graduated with a Bachelor of Arts, majoring in psychology and a Master of Social Work with a clinical specialization from Michigan State University. Daydra has more than 10 years of providing psychotherapy in non-profit and private practice settings.

Daydra works together with clients to understand themselves better, to manage their emotions, and to be able to communicate more effectively. Her approach is compassionate and non judgemental. When people feel better, they do better.

Daydra specializes in the treatment of trauma, post-traumatic stress disorder, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, self esteem, and life transitions.

She enjoys working with teenagers and adults.

Daydra uses treatment modalities including eye movement and desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR), parts work, narrative therapy, dialectical behavioural therapy (DBT), and cognitive behavioural therapy.

What is EMDR therapy?

 

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy is an extensively researched, effective psychotherapy method proven to help people recover from trauma and other distressing life experiences, including PTSD, anxiety, depression, and panic disorders.

EMDR therapy is guided by the Adaptive Information Processing theory, which describes how memories are processed and stored. The theory is that some traumatic memories cause distress because they have not been processed and released, but rather have gotten stuck in the amygdala (the emotional center of the brain) and the hippocampus (the memory center of the brain), causing a heightened fight or flight response, negative beliefs and intense emotional responses.

It differs from other forms of talk therapy in that it focuses on reprocessing the storage of traumatic memories in the brain, thus significantly reducing symptoms as a result. Dual attention stimuli (DAS), such as rapid eye movements, tapping, are a component to the treatment and reprocessing of memories. Other strategies include grounding exercises, visualizations, resource building, and thought replacement. As a client moves through the process, their brain is able to reprocess how the memory is stored, thus reducing the distress associated with the memory. As clients start to heal, compassion and self care increase. 

Frequently Asked Questions

How Much Does Counselling Cost?

Daydra’s fee is $140 per session and each session is between 50-60 minutes long.

Daydra is a registered Provider with Green Shield and several other benefit plans. Please contact your benefit plan directly (i.e, Manulife, Great West Life) and ask if they cover counselling/therapy for a Master of Social Work (MSW) or Registered Social Worker (RSW).

You may also want to ask: How much am I covered for each session? How much am I covered for each year?

As of September 2012, Registered Social Worker services can be claimed in Ontario as a medical expense for income tax purposes.

Where Can I Get Counselling If I Can’t Afford the Fee?

Free/Subsidized Counselling is available at:

  • Family Services Windsor Essex
  • Hiatus House
  • Hospice of Windsor
  • Windsor Essex Community Health Centre
  • Sexual Assault Crisis Centre
  • St-Clair College Student Counselling Centre
  • Teen Health Centre (youth under age 25)
  • University of Windsor, Student Counselling Centre
  • Windsor Family Health Team
  • Criminal Injuries Compensation Board
  • First Nations Inuit Health Branch
Is therapy right for me?

Seeking out therapy is an individual choice. There are many reasons why people come to therapy. Sometimes it is to deal with long-standing psychological issues, or problems with anxiety or depression. Other times it is in response to unexpected changes in one’s life such as a divorce or work transition. Many seek the advice of counsel as they pursue their own personal exploration and growth. Working with a therapist can help provide insight, support, and new strategies for all types of life challenges. Therapy can help address many types of issues including depression, anxiety, conflict, grief, stress management, body-image issues, and general life transitions. Therapy is right for anyone who is interested in getting the most out of their life by taking responsibility, creating greater self-awareness, and working towards change in their lives.

Do I really need therapy? I can usually handle my problems.

Everyone goes through challenging situations in life, and while you may have successfully navigated through other difficulties you’ve faced, there’s nothing wrong with seeking out extra support when you need it. In fact, therapy is for people who have enough self-awareness to realize they need a helping hand, and that is something to be admired. You are taking responsibility by accepting where you’re at in life and making a commitment to change the situation by seeking therapy. Therapy provides long-lasting benefits and support, giving you the tools you need to avoid triggers, re-direct damaging patterns, and overcome whatever challenges you face.

How can therapy help me?

A number of benefits are available from participating in psychotherapy. Therapists can provide support, problem-solving skills, and enhanced coping strategies for issues such as depression, anxiety, relationship troubles, unresolved childhood issues, grief, stress management, body image issues and creative blocks. Many people also find that counselors can be a tremendous asset to managing personal growth, interpersonal relationships, family concerns, marriage issues, and the hassles of daily life. Therapists can provide a fresh perspective on a difficult problem or point you in the direction of a solution. The benefits you obtain from therapy depend on how well you use the process and put into practice what you learn. Some of the benefits available from therapy include:

  • Attaining a better understanding of yourself, your goals and values
  • Developing skills for improving your relationships
  • Finding resolution to the issues or concerns that led you to seek therapy
  • Learning new ways to cope with stress and anxiety
  • Managing anger, grief, depression, and other emotional pressures
  • Improving communications and listening skills
  • Changing old behavior patterns and developing new ones
  • Discovering new ways to solve problems in your family or marriage
  • Improving your self-esteem and boosting self-confidence
What is therapy like?

Every therapy session is unique and caters to each individual and their specific goals. It is standard for therapists to discuss the primary issues and concerns in your life during therapy sessions. It is common to schedule a series of weekly sessions, where each session lasts between fifty and sixty minutes. Therapy can be short-term, focusing on a specific issue, or longer-term, addressing more complex issues or ongoing personal growth. There may be times when you are asked to take certain actions outside of the therapy sessions, such as reading a relevant book or keeping records to track certain behaviors. It is important to process what has been discussed and integrate it into your life between sessions. For therapy to be most effective you must be an active participant, both during and between the sessions. People seeking psychotherapy are willing to take responsibility for their actions, work towards self-change and create greater awareness in their lives. Here are some things you can expect out of therapy:

  • Compassion, respect and understanding
  • Perspectives to illuminate persistent patterns and negative feelings
  • Real strategies for enacting positive change
  • Effective and proven techniques along with practical guidance
How long does it usually take?

Some issues can be worked through in one to two months of therapy. However, if the client went through years of trauma and abuse, it can be necessary to continue for much longer than that – but that is ultimately up to the client and what they are willing to do.

Is medication a substitute for therapy?

In some cases a combination of medication and therapy is the right course of action. Working with your medical doctor you can determine what’s best for you. It is well established that the long-term solution to mental and emotional problems and the pain they cause cannot be solved solely by medication. Instead of just treating the symptom, therapy addresses the cause of our distress and the behavior patterns that curb our progress. You can best achieve sustainable growth and a greater sense of well-being with an integrative approach to wellness.